Mothers learn how to deal with theft among your children.

Dear worried mothers, parenting is like an exploration in wilderness you can never know the terrains that lie ahead until you reach there, it is clear from what you have revealed that you have done your best, yet your efforts are not yielding much results.
Frustrating as it is, stealing does not mean that your child is not bad or that you have failed as a parent. It is a parenting child that you can deal with only if you understand its roots

How to overcome it
· Developing an intimate relationship with her. You can’t influence a child who hates or fears you.
· You can mention that stealing is wrong without branding her a thief” calling a thief might make it worse. Look for opportunities to compliment her because humiliating her self esteem too.
· Work hand in hand with her teachers so that they help her instead of punishment.
· Help her draw closer to God. its only the fear of God that can keep her behavior in check all the time.
· Incase of more difficulties see a professional counselor.
· Continue loving her because the mother’s love has the potential of taming the wildest of the children.


You are like a porter with clay in hands and the word will judge by the quality of your work

Challenges are part of the game please don’t give up.

Loneliness

Loneliness builds from the very inside of us rather than from the outside, it may be triggered by some saddening events, death, divorce, join loss…

Overcoming it
· Bestir yourself by doing the positive things like calling someone on a phone, writing letters, reading books, invite a friend have an interchange of ideas
· Show yourself friendly to have friends
· Reach into yourself to reach out to others
· Do anything reflecting happiness, exaggerate it, over do it to win happy thoughts.
· Always put meaning into your life f not wi lack the will to live.

How to cope up with it?

· Seek medical treatment fro professional doctors
· Open up your feelings, share your problems with a friend, relative or even your management.
· Putting your feelings into words is a healing process that presents your mind from trying to deny the reality of the problem or loss and hence leaving this unresolved.
· Avoid the sense of false pride while depressed.
· Contend with feelings of low self-esteem while fighting depression.

Are you depressed?

A depressed person finds it difficult to perform even the most routine tasks such as getting dressed, brushing teeth, preparing breakfast and making routine decisns. E.g a depressed woman whose friend was late for an appointment became convinced that the friend no longer liked, and that in fact she was unlikable, so the thoughts of the depressed patient are ruled by negative views of the world- the cognitive triad of depression”
Depressed people exaggerate minor obstacles into impossible barriers, consider themselves stupid or hopelessly incompetent and see the future as only full of more painful failures.

How to pass a job interview?

· Be grown up businesslike, greet employer with respect, call him Mr. not Jack, Buddy, Paul, Charlie etc.
· Sit up straight in a chair; feet firmly on floor; look alert
· Think before answering a question, be polite, honest and frank.
· Have a guide sheet with you, listing all jobs, dates of work, wages, kinds of work you did, reasons you left.
· Be ready to show how your training and work experience will help you to get ahead on job you are asking for.
· Be confident, enthusiastic, but do not bluff, use good English and speak distinctly, do not talk too much
· Listen carefully; be polite and tactful above all do not get into any arguments with your prospective employer.
· The employer is only interested in only how well you will fit the job. Do not mention personal, home or money problem.
· If it seems you may not get a job, seek employer’s advice about other jobs that may come up with in the firm
· Send employer brief thank you letter immediately after interview.